Getting the Most Out of Ashti
Ashti's AI works best when you give it clear, focused communication. The more directly you describe your situation, the more accurate and actionable your Resolution Report will be. Below are a few principles that will help you get the best results.
How Ashti Works: Step-by-Step
Create a Space
Think of a Space as a private room for a single topic. Give it a clear name, like "The Startup Equity Split" or "Holiday Travel Plans."
Invite the Other Person
Generate a secure invite link and send it to your co-founder, partner, or colleague. They will join the exact same Space, but their view will remain completely private.
The Private Intake
Chat with Ashti's AI to explain your side of the story. Be completely honest—your partner cannot see your chat, and you cannot see theirs. The AI uses this private conversation to understand your underlying frustrations and needs.
Generate the Resolution
Once both of you have explained your perspectives, anyone can click the "Generate Report" button. Ashti will lock the intakes and analyze both sides simultaneously.
Review Your Action Plan
Unlock your custom Conflict Resolution Report. Instead of telling you who is "right," Ashti will show you your Shared Reality, explain the underlying tension, and give you a literal, step-by-step script to start a healthy conversation.
The Golden Rule: One Topic Per Space
Think of an Ashti Space like a dedicated mediation room. When you generate a Resolution Report, our AI analyzes the entire history of that specific room to understand the underlying tension.
If you try to resolve a disagreement about household chores in the same Space where you previously discussed financial planning, the AI will try to connect the two topics, resulting in a confused and inaccurate report.
For the best, most actionable insights, always create a brand new Space for every new topic or disagreement.
Be Honest, Not Perfect
You don't need to sound polished or formal. Speak naturally. Write as if you're explaining the situation to a trusted friend. The AI is designed to find the common ground between you and your partner — even when your perspectives feel miles apart.
Avoid editing out your genuine feelings in an attempt to sound "reasonable." The mediator works best when it can understand both the facts and the emotional reality of the situation. Your honesty helps it surface the real tension and suggest steps that actually address it.