How it works
The whole journey, before you take the first step
These are real screens from Ashti, walking two fictional people through the exact product you would use: what stays private, what gets shared, what it costs, and how it ends. It works the same for any two people who need to find their way back: partners, colleagues, family, co-founders. And it starts with just you: the other person only joins if and when you invite them. One promise above all: neither of you ever sees the other's private words, and neither do we. That separation is enforced in code, verified by automated tests on every release, and your content is never used to train AI models. No surprises is the point.
Act I: On your own
Everything in this act works even if the other person never joins. Many people stop here.
Step 1
One of you starts a space
No forms, no waiting room. Whoever is ready first creates a private space for the two of you. The other person does not need to know yet.
- 1One button. The space holds everything that follows.
Step 2
A few structured questions
Before any conversation, Ashti asks about the relationship, the conflict, and how you are doing. Ten minutes, at your own pace, and it is the foundation everything else is built on. This snapshot is yours alone.
- 1Your confidential snapshot: sealed, and sanitized before anything shared is ever created.
Step 3
Say it raw, in private
Maya vents to the AI the way she actually feels it. This conversation is hers alone: Tomas will never see a word of it. The AI listens for what is underneath the complaint.
- 1Private means private. Tomas never sees this conversation, and no human at Ashti reads it either.
- 2The AI digs for the need under the complaint, not who is right.
- 3Speak instead of type. Your voice becomes editable text anywhere you see the mic.
Step 4
Your Blueprint, no partner required
Here is what most walkthroughs would hide: you can stop right here. For €25, Ashti turns your private conversation into a Personal Mediation Blueprint: what is really happening, what you need, what to say first, and your next steps. Yours alone, even if the other person never joins, and many people start the real conversation with nothing more than this.
- 1A private playbook for the real conversation, written from your side of it.
- 2Inviting your partner stays optional, one button, whenever you are ready.
You could stop here with a Blueprint. Or keep going, together.
Starting is free. Your side stays private until you decide otherwise.
Start Your ResolutionAct II: Bringing them in
Optional, and only when you are ready.
Step 5
Invite the other person
When Maya is ready, she sends Tomas a private invitation with a note in her own words. Nothing she shared travels with it.
- 1The invite carries your note, never your intake.
Step 6
They join on their own terms
Tomas signs up and finds the invitation waiting. He gets the same thing Maya got: his own private room, before anything is shared.
- 1The invitation waits calmly. No pressure, no countdown.
Step 7
Their side, just as protected
Tomas answers the same structured questions about the same conflict, from his side of it. His answers are sealed away from Maya exactly as hers are from him.
- 1Answers are sanitized before anything shared is ever generated.
Act III: Back to each other
Together, with the AI in the middle.
Step 8
The AI mediates between two sealed rooms
In the shared room, the AI speaks with both of them, but each person only ever sees their own words and the mediator's. Raw words never cross, and no one at Ashti sits in the middle reading either side. We call it the vault: enforced in code, not by promise, and verified by automated tests on every release.
- 1The mediator reframes heat into signal before it reaches the other side.
- 2You see your words and the mediator's. Never your partner's raw text.
Step 9
The honest moment: one report, one price
When both sides are in, the engine builds a joint resolution and locks it. Unlocking costs €35 for a couple, €25 solo. No subscription, no recurring anything. Payments are handled by an industry-standard secure payment gateway.
- 1You pay once, only for the report you choose to unlock.
Step 10
A shared truth you can both stand on
The resolution names the real conflict, the shared reality, what each of you needs to hear, and a script for the first conversation. It is written so neither side is quoted or exposed, and that protection is checked automatically.
- 1A clinical snapshot, not a verdict. Nobody is ruled against.
- 2The shared reality both of you can recognize.
- 3What each of you needs to hear, side by side.
- 4Concrete next steps, small enough to actually happen.
Step 11
Guided reconnection, one turn at a time
Aligned on the facts, you re-enter a live room together. One person speaks at a time, the AI facilitator guides between you, and if you turn voice on, it speaks aloud, like a mediator sitting in the room.
- 1Turn voice on and the AI facilitator speaks aloud between the two of you.
- 2One voice at a time, by design. No interrupting.
- 3Speak your turn. The mic turns your voice into editable text.
Step 12
The goal is to not need us
When the metrics show you have genuinely found each other again, the session graduates: you choose a cause we contribute to in your honor, and you finish the conversation without us. If it stalls instead, we help you connect with a certified human therapist. Both endings are wins.
- 1Graduation is measured, not assumed: calm language plus mutual mirroring.
- 2Your reconnection funds a cause you pick together.
Ready when you both are. Or when just one of you is.
Starting is free. Your side stays private until you decide otherwise.
Start Your ResolutionMaya and Tomas, and Sofia and Daniel, are fictional; every screen above is the real product. Voice features are optional, and how we handle voice is described in our Privacy Policy. If a conversation needs a human, we help you find a certified therapist.